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Lack of motivation & random ramblings

March 16th, 2010 at 10:42 am

Having one of those "blah" days.

My Aunt called a couple days ago saying she had finalized all of my Dad's affairs so I would be getting another $5500. Off to savings that goes.

The doctor regarding the surgery called. $9K and I'd have to front the money whether or not insurance covers it. So I think I'm just going to wait. I'm doing my best to try to adapt to it. As much as it annoys me, I know if I end up having the surgery and we end up in a bad financial position because of it... its not worth it when I compare the discomfort.

My son finally got his soccer coach assigned to him and practice starts Thursday. So off to get cleats, a soccer ball, shin guards, socks, and some other practice clothes I go.

I think I'll probably have to go alone though. DH is stuck at work late today.

He also left me for a lurch for my CPA exam. For weeks I have been saying "Ask for the fifth of April off" "When should I take the exam?" "You're SURE I can take it on the 5th?"

So I schedule the exam and he calls me yesterday saying that I may have to reschedule it.

By this time I'm fed up. My life has been on hold trying to accommodate his schedule for years now. I realize that if I'm going to take this exam and get it done in my planned schedule, I'm just going to have to find another way. Sometimes I just can't rely on him.

Luckily, my neighbor down the street said she'd watch the older kids for me.

Its a pain, but I guess I better get used to it. Something about the Navy doesn't equate to being reliable even though I know my husband completely means well to.

I wonder if this means I'll have to have 2 or 3 backup childcare providers when I start working outside the house.

3 Responses to “Lack of motivation & random ramblings”

  1. creditcardfree Says:

    I find the same thing, the inability to rely on my husband. Army ALWAYS comes first. It's the main reason I don't work outside the home.

  2. Homebody Says:

    My daughter schedules her photo shoots around DH. I think that is why she is coming to live with us when he deploys in July!


  3. ambitioussaver Says:

    Creditcardfree, it never ceases to amaze me how the military always comes first in our marriage. I joke and say that I may be a married woman, but I'm a single mom when it comes to having to be the only one that can really be relied upon. DH helps around the house a lot & is a fantastic father, but still yet... when he has to go, he has to go.

    Homebody, your daughter is really talented! She takes beautiful photos. Smile

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